tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9106461808829357984.post2515586806119508864..comments2023-04-10T03:28:44.052-04:00Comments on Letters to You: The Impatient PlannerChrissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17165150097783941202noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9106461808829357984.post-68086843934746366442010-10-27T08:08:15.607-04:002010-10-27T08:08:15.607-04:00Dear sweet girl,
Your pain is too new and raw. Don...Dear sweet girl,<br />Your pain is too new and raw. Don't be hard on yourself and don't buy into anyone telling you to pull it together in a hurry. Your brain is still in shock so your memory issues, your sleep problems, your anger are all perfectly normal. In fact, your reactions are probably the only "normal" part of all of this. The "plan" right now is to let yourself grieve, to get through each day, and when you are feeling a little better, begin to think about what comes next. I understand completely about loss and what it does to our plans. I am alot older than you are and I feel like a lost child still trying to find my way to a new plan. Just know that there are thousands of strangers out here like me, who are moved by your posts, who share your grief, and who will lift you up and pray for strength for you.<br />A military momAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9106461808829357984.post-48189604324347070622010-10-26T21:12:54.850-04:002010-10-26T21:12:54.850-04:00Chrissy,
Condolences from this Vietnam Veteran fo...Chrissy,<br /><br />Condolences from this Vietnam Veteran for your loss; he served his country with honor, I am sure. <br /><br />Please accept, and convey to his family, my thanks for his service to our country.<br /><br />In times like these, I am wont to say that...<br /><br />Be patient child, he waits, in a Happier Place, for you. He is healthy there, and whole...he has all eternity to wait, and then you will be together again.<br /><br />My best wishes to you, and I hope you find peace.<br /><br />La MigraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9106461808829357984.post-33714816201864654652010-10-25T13:09:00.976-04:002010-10-25T13:09:00.976-04:00Chrissy,
My heart breaks for you. I just recentl...Chrissy, <br /><br />My heart breaks for you. I just recently lost my boyfriend in Afghanistan on 8/30/10 as well. I can relate to the mess of emotions you are struggling through. Each day feels surreal. Living life doesn't really feel like you're living at all- it's almost like watching yourself in a fog. Nothing anyone can say will make this time any easier, but please know you are not alone. It's a very lonely feeling trying to grieve someone you had planned a future with, so just know there is someone out there praying for you to find happiness again someday. <br /><br />I'm wishing you the peace to walk through your grief and the courage to live your life with pleasure, achievement, and love. <br /><br />-From one grieving girl to another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com